Mary Ellen Markley

June 15, 1915 - Feb. 5, 2013

ELKHART - Mary Ellen Markley, 97, passed away peacefully, surrounded by her family at East Lake Terrace at 7:20 p.m. Tuesday Feb. 5, 2013.

She had resided in her own home until Monday, Jan. 28, 2013, when she moved to East Lake Terrace.

She was born June 15, 1915, in Elkhart to Otto M. and Hazel (Hartung) Miller.

She was preceded in death by three brothers, Hillary Miller, Dr. William (Mary Grace) Miller and Otto M. Jr. (Jean) Miller.

On June 16, 1934, she married Harold M. Markley of Goshen. He preceded her in death in 1978.

They were the loving parents of Joan (Jim) Bock, Nancy (Bill) Stanner and Tim (Nancy) Markley, all of Elkhart. Her grandchildren were the light of her life. They include Christi Bock (Jim) Harman, Terri Stanner (Steve) Blaising, Jamie Bock (Jeff) Helman, Darci Stanner (Marc) Gaff, Staci Stanner (Tony) Anagnos, Jon D. Markley and Tim Markley Jr. Other survivors include her great-grandchildren, Katie Harman, James (JJ) Harman, Kaley Helman (Rob) Taylor, Megan Blaising (Julian) Harrell, Courtney Helman (Stockton) Schultz, Drew Gaff, Alli Gaff, Nick Blaising, Maddie Helman, Alaina Gaff and Addison Gaff.

A granddaughter, Mara Helman, preceded her in death.

She was fortunate to have the opportunity to see the birth of her great-great-grandchildren, Avalon and Harper Taylor and Navy Schultz. She is also survived by her sister-in-law, Mary Grace Miller; two nieces, Susan Edmundson and Marsha Kringle; one nephew, William Miller; and many great-nieces and great-nephews.

She had a love for cooking and treating her family to Amish cookies, amazing pies and homemade noodles. She also enjoyed gardening, feeding the birds, quilting and lap time with her kitty, Heidi.

Mary Ellen was a homemaker for many years but was ready to become a business woman when Harold told her of an opportunity for them to have a small business at home. After two years he joined her in this business and in 1959 Markley Enterprise Inc. was created. Mary filled many roles; accounting, human resources and staffing as well as being the pleasant smile at the front desk and on the phone. When Harold died in 1978, Mary continued to work in the business with her children until the age of 92.

Although a sweet, soft-spoken lady, she always had profound thoughts of wisdom. A good example would be a note we found in her kitchen reading "Don't criticize those who fail trying. Only criticize those who fail to try."

Mary Ellen was a member of Trinity United Methodist Church of Elkhart, a circle member and loved helping prepare and serve Wednesday night dinners for the church and community.

The family would like to thank the staffs of East Lake Terrace, Harbor Light Hospice and Firefly Home Care who gave such wonderful, loving care to our mother.

Visitation for family and friends will be from 4 to 7 p.m. Sunday, Feb. 10, 2013, at Walley-Mills-Zimmerman Funeral Home and from 10 to 11 a.m. Monday, Feb. 11, 2013, at Trinity United Methodist Church. Funeral services will be at 11 a.m. Monday, Feb. 11, 2013, at the church. Pastor Mark Dicken will preside. Burial will follow in Rice Cemetery.

Memorial contributions may be given to Trinity United Methodist Church or Harbor Light Hospice.


Memories and Condolences

Anita Devore- Byrd, Bristol, IN

So sorry about the loss of your mom she was beautiful person. I worked at Markley for about a year, "76 - 77" great people to work for. she always had a smile on her face and a kind word to say. May she rest in peace.

Deb Kreighbaum, Elkhart, IN

Mrs. Markley was a beautiful woman inside and out. I worked for the family for a short time, well over 30 years ago. She helped me during a tough time in my life that made a huge impact on who I am today. Thank you Mrs. Markley. I only wish I had sent you a note of thanks while you were still with us; but I'm sure you know how grateful I still am.

Marcia Kringel, Littleton, CO

Aunt Mary Ellen was a guiding for all of us who loved her. I think at 15 I ate too many of those fabulous Amish cookies. The recipe calls for lbs of sugar and lbs of flour. As far as i know no one in the next generation has even tried to make those fabulous cookies. Aunt Mary Ellen was a guiding inflence in the family. I do remember that even as an over 50 year old adult Uncle Bill used to give her the business. Of course my, Otto, never got after her. Aunt Mary Ellen will always be special. Love all of you. Your cousin, Marcia

Myra Rhoades Wilson, Edwardsburg, MI

I was so sorry to learn of Mary Ellen's passing. I remember her big smile and the "family" way we were always treated. Working for Harold and Mary Ellen was a real pleasure. You are all in my thoughts and prayers at this time of sorrow. Mary Ellen is now in our loving Lords care.

Cheri Cooper Chandler, Apache Junction, AZ

I remember Mary Ellen from my years of working for her and Harold at Markley Enterprises with my aunt, Jan Anderson, my sister, Jacque Cooper Garrett and best friend, Myra Rhoades Wilson. We were all one big family there thanks to Mary Ellen. I am happy to learn that she lived a long and happy life. God bless you all at this trying time.

Michele vanPelt, Salem, OR

Nancy, My condolences on the passing of your mother. Mike (Schmalzried)

Lanny Rogers, Elkhart, IN

What a wonderful lady Mary was I know she will be missed by all her friends & family. May God give strength to all she left behind.

Charles & Jaxie Miller, Indianapolis, IN

What a privilege to first meet Mary Ellen & Harold in 1957. A wonderful lady and couple! We send our condolences to all the family. "The Lord is good, A stronghold in the day of trouble; And, he knows those who trust in Him". Nahum 1:7

Michele Lucchese, Vandalia, MI

What an accomplishment for all she did in her lifetime - sending you heartfelt sympathy during this difficult time.